✨Conscious Relationship ✨
👼Conscious Relationship👼
Every-once in a while we share the work of wonderful men/women in our lives to help connect the dots for each others.
Sometimes.....
Your dream partner will become your nightmare. It’s built into the system because of our unconscious choosing. We need to resolve the nightmare without forcing the other person to change.
When relationship feels like a nightmare. Mostly when there is a conflict in a relationship.Most of us interpret the feelings or both as a criticism or judgement. And find there is no compatibility in a relationship but differences aren’t so easy to point at first, what’s what make them your unconscious attraction.
But importantly we need to understand if there is no friction, then there is no growth.
Relationships are designed help us grow, we unconsciously attract partner who will trigger us the same way our care takers did. If we are willing to do the work together, relationship becomes the container in which we can heal.
*If there is a problem that is occurring in a relationship. We need to learn ... whether it’s about to communicate the needs, set the boundaries or (this is most common) reveal the parts of myself that we hold back.
*We need to learn what’s behind the conflict because those conflicts are often an effort to resolve the childhood wounds and get what we never got as a child.
*Conflicts happens in every relationship. It’s a part of the deal when you put two different people in close proximity for a long time. We like to dig around, go over/under and avoid the conflicts.
*But the best way through this is conscious relationship. Where we need to learn to see these moments as beautiful opportunities for growth and healing. We can learn how to give and receive the love we always wanted.
Also Waking up to what’s underneath our words and actions looking inward at ourselves and being accountable for what’s inside. It also means learning how to create safety for your partner so they can heal.
If we learn to hold that space we slowly can resolve the past .
And our relationships becomes the therapeutic opportunity of a lifetime. And this works best together.
If you find this post useful share it with someone you care about.
🎶✨☮️✨🎶
🌸✨Shriram Jay Ram Jay Jay Ram✨ 🌸
Lightworkers
Journey towards bliss
Every-once in a while we share the work of wonderful men/women in our lives to help connect the dots for each others.
Sometimes.....
Your dream partner will become your nightmare. It’s built into the system because of our unconscious choosing. We need to resolve the nightmare without forcing the other person to change.
When relationship feels like a nightmare. Mostly when there is a conflict in a relationship.Most of us interpret the feelings or both as a criticism or judgement. And find there is no compatibility in a relationship but differences aren’t so easy to point at first, what’s what make them your unconscious attraction.
But importantly we need to understand if there is no friction, then there is no growth.
Relationships are designed help us grow, we unconsciously attract partner who will trigger us the same way our care takers did. If we are willing to do the work together, relationship becomes the container in which we can heal.
*If there is a problem that is occurring in a relationship. We need to learn ... whether it’s about to communicate the needs, set the boundaries or (this is most common) reveal the parts of myself that we hold back.
*We need to learn what’s behind the conflict because those conflicts are often an effort to resolve the childhood wounds and get what we never got as a child.
*Conflicts happens in every relationship. It’s a part of the deal when you put two different people in close proximity for a long time. We like to dig around, go over/under and avoid the conflicts.
*But the best way through this is conscious relationship. Where we need to learn to see these moments as beautiful opportunities for growth and healing. We can learn how to give and receive the love we always wanted.
Also Waking up to what’s underneath our words and actions looking inward at ourselves and being accountable for what’s inside. It also means learning how to create safety for your partner so they can heal.
If we learn to hold that space we slowly can resolve the past .
And our relationships becomes the therapeutic opportunity of a lifetime. And this works best together.
If you find this post useful share it with someone you care about.
🎶✨☮️✨🎶
🌸✨Shriram Jay Ram Jay Jay Ram✨ 🌸
Lightworkers
Journey towards bliss
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